Marriage counseling
Marriage counseling with Dr. David McFadden
I like and I believe in people. I find people incredible and fascinating in their ability to cope with, live through, learn from and change as a result of what life throws at them.
There is always a way
I always, always believe there is a way to move forward. There are times when the way is hard to find, when our brains shut down to the possibility of a way through the mess and uncertainty in front of us. My job is to help you believe there is a way, and then to find the way that works best for you. (Even if that means you borrow my faith in you for a little while.)
I bring a Master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy and one in Pastoral Counseling, a Doctorate in Pastoral Counseling, a wealth of experience in life and in my work as a therapist, and a personality built for working with people. Helping people is my life’s calling.
I’ve always taken on personal challenges: I have ridden my bicycle to the top of the highest paved road in the world four times, 60 miles of pedaling uphill. I’m not afraid of something difficult, and I’ll jump in with you to take on the challenge, trial, tragedy, major decision or struggle you are facing. I will stick with you until we get it figured out and you are reaching your goals.
I can help with
- Being the victim of an affair
- Getting disentangled from an affair
- Restoring a broken marriage
- Learning how to take care of your spouse
- Improving your relationships
- Breaking out of boredom in your life and your marriage
- Navigating major life transitions
- Deciding on a future course for your life
- Getting past the hurdles that keep you from your goals
- Surviving, managing and moving through grief
How it works
A practical, directive approach
I will not just sit, nod and ask you once in a while how you feel. I take the lead, give you clear steps, and stay with you while you take them.
A free call
A 15–20 minute phone or video call. I tell you how my process works, and you come away with what you need to decide.
Your story
I take the time to get to know you and understand your story, and what you really want and need.
A plan and practical steps
I take the lead: clear options, specific steps and, often, homework between sessions.
I stay with you
You take the steps; I stay alongside, debrief what you tried and fine-tune it with you.
Celebrate the change
I help you notice and celebrate your successes and the change you came for.
Who I work with
Couples, and people who want their relationships to be better
Couples
Whether things have gone quiet and boring, arguments keep escalating, or trust has been broken by an affair. Or you have a good marriage and want a great one.
One partner, on your own
Wanting to make your relationship better even if your spouse is not joining in right now is a goal I can work on with you.
Engaged couples
Premarital counseling before the wedding, with assessments that show where you are well matched and where to watch out.
Anyone facing a big change
Grief, major life transitions, or deciding on a future course for your life.
Training and experience
Licensed, and practical
- Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
- Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor
- Master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy
- Master’s degree and Doctor of Ministry in Pastoral Counseling
- 20+ years as a full-time marriage and family therapist
- Over 50,000 hours counseling couples
Fees
Priced to what you need
Clients often ask about the cost of counseling. I like to talk with you first, decide together what kind of help is needed, and price it accordingly.
Please ask about discounts. I’m happy to find an arrangement that makes sense for our working relationship.
Where we meet
In person, or by video and phone wherever you are
In person
By appointment: 3584 N 1425 W, Linton, IN 47441.
By video or phone
On Zoom, wherever you are. All you need is a computer or phone and an internet connection; there is no cost to sign on.
Sessions
Usually an hour. Longer, more intensive sessions can be arranged when you need them.
From my articles
Writing on marriage
Marriage
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Free consultation
Take the next step
Call 630-333-3202 or send a short note for a free 15–20 minute phone or video consultation. I’ll tell you how my process works, and you’ll come away with what you need to decide whether we should work together.